Anne Graham Lotz “Wounded by God’s People: Discovering How
God’s Love Heals Our Hearts” Book Review
Even madman Adolf Hitler knows about this. Prior to his attack on Soviet Union in 1941,
Hitler mulcted Joseph Stalin of his military prowess when he allowed Stalin to
witness some forged documents indicating that his officers were conspiring
against him. In a moment of rage and
paranoia, Stalin executed 35,000 of his top ranking officers representing over
half of the Russian officer corps. With
the strategic minds and the invincible force of the Russian army conspicuously
weakened, Germany launched its all out massive assault on the Soviet Union leading
to more casualties and atrocities imaginable to the human mind.
Often such is the blueprint Satan uses to attack God’s
church. In our western cultures, with
our governments’ hand off religious policies, our threat is hardly from our
pagan rulers these days. Rare also are
the cases when an established Bible-affirming church is rattled by the threat of
a strand of erroneous teachings from an outsider. Most churches are equipped with enough
intelligent minds and Bible literacy to radar any impeding dangers when an
outsider tries to weave in erroneous doctrines into the church. Unlike in the New Testament or in some
Communist countries, outsiders --- be it the government or a cultic group
outside the church --- are hardly a threat to churches. Nevertheless, Satan has a new game plan. It may take years for a church to witness a slight
increment in its membership roll, but it only takes one congregation meeting gone
awry to vacate half the church. Nothing
missiles more irreparable damages to the congregational life and slams the
doors of the church faster than when Christians wound each other (especially
its leaders).
Anne Graham Lotz has had firsthand experience of what it
means to be assaulted by fellow believers.
She has seen with her own eyes how congregations can tear at each
other’s throats in ways so vicious that you would hear of a law suit coming
your way if such behaviors were replicated in a secular corporation. Before we start to explore some Lotz’s own
experiences and how she responded to those who have hurt her in her latest
book, “Wounded by God’s People,” it is suffice to say a word first about
Lotz. Her middle name “Graham” is a
giveaway; Anne Graham Lotz is none other than the daughter of famed evangelist
Dr. Billy Graham. Over the years, she
has followed in the footsteps of her father in becoming one of the most sorted after
speakers where she has spoken on seven continents, in more than twenty foreign
countries. And like her dad, she is
equally prolific with her pen: her books “The Magnificent Obsession,”
“Expecting to See Jesus” and “The Vision of His Glory” have become popular Bible
study guides across women and home groups all over the world.
“Wounded by God’s People” is her most personal book to
date. Anchored in her own personal
experiences where she and her husband were “booed” out by the churches where
they were part of, Lotz uses these experiences as her starting point. From which, she chronicles for us with
palatable emotions her journey towards healing using the Biblical story of
Hagar as her GPS. What makes this book
such a rapid page turner is the way Lotz narrates her stories. She holds her pen the same way a CCTV
operates: when she and her husband Danny
were voted off by her church, we can’t help but feel ourselves watching the
video of that fateful day unrolling in slow motion before our very eyes. We can’t help but wonder how a church that is
built upon sturdy columns of bricks could house a congregation of such paper-thin
loyalty. We can’t help but feel puzzled about
how the beautiful spire of the church that points skyward towards the cobalt
blue can construe such an agenda that descends straight into the pit. We can’t help but imagine how a congregation
that can rise from the pews to sing “How Great Thou Art” on Sunday morning could
get up of their seats a few moments later to vote out their deacon and his wife,
who had taught, led and gave their lives to the church. Ghastliness indeed gets a whole new look when
the Lotzes were voted off by 600 members accompanied with a thunderous
applause. Right or wrong, can anything
be crueler than to applaud for someone’s dismissal?
Danny and Anne Graham Lotz are not alone. According to survey conducted by “Christianity
Today,” 1,500 pastors leave their respective churches each month in the US
alone. Out of the current pastors in
America alone, 23 % have been forced to resign or fired in the past. 45% of those who were forced to resign left
the ministry for good; while 34% of pastors now serve congregations which have
forced their previous pastor to resign. But
the implications are not just for leaders, church fights have dire
repercussions for churches. Rarely does
a congregation go unscathed when they have to vote off a church leader; often
the repair is irreversible. And let’s
face it, church fight is the major cause of church shrinkage. And in many cases, it is also the factor that can
ultimately lead to church closures.
Nevertheless, this book is not a pity party; neither is this
Lotz’s paltry attempt to air the dirty laundries of her churches for all of us
to see. It is not even a book that
merely helps us to palliate our pains; Lotz is not just a school nurse handing
out temporary bandages for our lacerated bruises. Rather, her purpose is more ambitious (and
should we say Godly); she wants us to face up to our pain and by God’s help to
walk out of “the cycle of pain” (p. 53).
The goal is reconciliation (see pages 207-216): reconciliation to both
God as well as to others.
Space Invaders
One of the book’s most glowing lessons is that Lotz teaches
us that wounds are space invaders. A
wound like a clothes moth may appear miniscule; but if you leave a clothes moth
in a closet long enough, it will ultimately invade the entire of your closet
space and leave its marks on all the clothes inside. A wound untreated will cause our inner-self
to spiritually decay to such an extent that the wounded becomes the
wounder. Lotz illustrates this well when
she tells the heartbreaking story of how she accidentally ran over her dog
Cedric (pages 59 &60). While Cedric
was lying crumpled in the driveway, Lotz rushed to gather the dog in her
arms. Instead of resting in his
mistress’ arms, he drew back in pain, fiercely growling at her before sinking
his teeth right into Lotz’s hand. This
is because when we are in pain, our natural reflux is to bite back in
pain.
First, wounds invade the space in our hearts in such a way
that it blurs our vision between God’s people and God Himself (p. 47). When we are wounded, it’s easy to think that
God is as malicious as the people who were supposed to represent him. Lotz herself is first to admit that after she
was hurt by her church she stopped attending church in a self-imposed exile for
a year (p. 67). Lotz even goes on to
tell us the story of William, a journalist, who was shamelessly abused by the
organized church. Not only was William
unable to distinguished between God and his people, he even went public with
his views on why he has surrendered his belief in God. Wounds have a way of overstaying in our
hearts and forcing God out if we don’t turn to Him in repentance.
Second, if left unattended, wounds can so burgeon in our
hearts that it squeezes others out of our lives. Of all the stories Lotz tells in the book,
one is most grateful of how she never allows her wounds to stain her. Despite often being the victims of criticisms
and unfair treatments, Lotz and her husband love others with an admirable
Christ-like love. Love is a word that is
often victimized in the hands of frivolity.
But this is not the case with Danny and Anne Graham Lotz: their story of
how they stood by their pastor Steve when their church wanted to fire him after
he was met with an accident is enough to well tears in our eyes. In a world where friends are more like banes
easily tossed around by the wind, the Lotzes are friends we would love to
covet.
Third, wounds have a way of making us so self-righteous that
we would turn everyone who has had offended us into Satan and his devils
incarnate. Despite all the pains we have
had endured, we do have our blind spots too: “wounded people” as Lotz writes,
“need to repent of their sins (too)” (p. 100).
However, what is disappointing is that Lotz doesn’t bring her exultation
to her own church struggles: why did as many as 600 church members vote against
her husband? Why did her church refuse
to allow her Bible class to be run on their property? Were there any blind spots she has had picked
up from her church debacles?
Photoshop Exegesis
In reading this book one has to admire Lotz for carefully
walking with us through every twist and turn of Hagar’s cycle from pain to
reconciliation. Along the way, she has
uncovered for us many gems that have often overlooked if it were not for Lotz’s
careful eye. Nevertheless, Lotz’s
exegesis of the text tends to be too myopic at times. Often she would even admit she has to “read
between the lines” in order to bring out what she wants to say about Hagar and
the Biblical text. There are even times
she would even go as far as psychologising the passage in order to elucidate
what Hagar must have been feeling at the various junctures of the story. Such exegetical photoshopping of the text is
not only uncalled for but it also leads to reading too much of our contemporary
nuances into the text.
I
nstead of such myopic photoshopping, Lotz would be better
off to consider how the story of Hagar contributes to the wider context of the
book of Genesis and the Bible as a whole.
It would be more profitable, for instance, to consider how Genesis 16
prepares us for the exodus and the universality of sin. Just as Israel would one day be mistreated by
the Egyptians when they were forced to live in Egypt; here we have an Israelite
(Sarai) mistreating an Egyptian (Hagar) as she was forced to flee to
Egypt. Sin therefore spares none of
Adam’s children; as cruel as the Egyptians were to the Israelites, given the
chance the Israelites did not do any better either. This is why the Apostle Paul has to return
back to same of motif of Hagar and Sarah again in Galatians 4.
Nevertheless, Lotz has placed her finger on the white
elephant few churches are willing to talk about. Unless we face up to our wounds and stop
hurting others, we would ultimately be falling victims to Satan’s master
plan. Do the church, your church leaders
and yourself a favor by picking up Lotz’s “Wounded by God’s People” today
before the next congregational meeting is turned into Satan’s workshop.